Love Makes Families

Love Makes Families
A family of 8 due to the blessing of adoption!

Friday, July 26, 2013

In Memory

In Memory


Today we light our candles for all the ones we know of,
As well as the ones we don't.

We light our candles for the ones who have passed away,
The ones we know have died,

IT IS WITH GREAT DEVASTATION THAT I AM EDITTING TO ADD A NEW ANGEL IN HEAVEN,


And the ones we don't.


Today we are light candles for the ones left behind,
The ones we know of and the ones we don't.


We light candles for the ones who have joined families and are now safe in loving arms.


And we pray for the ones with families on their way,
We pray for their strength to carry on,
To fight just a little more


Today my family lights another candle, a candle for the little girl we lost and we pray for the family that will bring her home soon.
We light our candles for those who have died, those who survive, those who have been found, and those who still wait.
We say a prayer today for Hanson and all the children who can't hang on anymore for a family to find them.
And we say a prayer for two families who were going,
But found out their children had passed away.
For all these people we pray.


The above is from my Friend Colleen's blog (http://thestarsaligned.blogspot.com/2013/07/in-memory.html). 
Every time I think of babies gone too soon, I think of Genie




Saturday, July 20, 2013

The name wall

These are the names going on the name wall, but I need your help.
If your name should be on here and isn't, please let me know. Also, if you see any duplicates or mistakes please let me know :) Thanks a ton to all of the amazing people listed below.

Mom, Dad, Kaitlyn, Brittany and Alyssa
Poppy and Grandma (Baba)
The Colbry Family
Kellie Shaffer
The Unroe Family
The Schmitt Family
Toby and Nora Ward
Chris Penn
Elisabeth Schapp
Michelle, Craig, Adam, Tyson, Ryan and Kevin
Peggy, Curtis, Kathryn, Joshua and Alex
Chelsea Claus
Michelle Buhler
The Dietz Family
Billy, Beverly and Stacey
Tiffany Blackmon
Jess Kindt
The Swenson Family
Melody Small
Jason and Jessica Pachter
Stephanie Carmichael
Breanne Sproule
Celeste Seidenfus
Teah Olson
Annette Epstein
Sarah Birschbach
Colleen Novit
Jamie Lentz
Deborah Baker
Kelly Muni
Christina Schye
Cat Hedrich
Lisa Garcia
Lorraine Colwell
Bobby Baird (Little B)
Cindy Olson
Brenda Bennion
Karla Akwa
Jonna Shamwana
Verdawn Hunt
Heather Fillmore
Daelyn Kingston
Kristi Cox
Erin Klarr
Jocelyn Harper
Kirsten Murdock
Rebecca Adams
Amanda Burlingham
Cathie Thomson
Lauren DeStefano
Sylvia Middleton
Anna and Jon Keyzer
Andrea Marticorena
Ashley Tucker
Jasmine Bass
Kristi Kerr
Sabrina Chimienti 
Kelly Mayr
Beth Schantzen
Shannon Rakoczy
Amanda Sutton
Julia Nalle
Katrina Morriss
Carole Percy
Courtney Houston
Brooke Kirk
Mary Lou Vance Howard
Julie Van Heerden
Chelsea Pearce
Cyndi Rodgers
Angela Pachcairz
Angie, Dennis, Kelse, Dylan, Kaila
Sonja Chewning
Retta Woolfenden
Silly Grandma and Grandpa
Troy, Veronica, Emily and Ian
Jennifer Tolboe
Amy and Andrew Brockhaus
Arin Franz
Brett Harris
Donna Dugo
Nina Shields
Lisa Llewellyn
Shane and Deanna Silcox
Jennifer Hansell
The Crawford Family
Koralyn Driskill
Andrea Bleeker
Karen Patterson
The Ramirez Family (Julie, Josue and Livi)
Christine Reed
The Klumpe family
Cathie Thompson
Monica MacDonald
Tracy Wood
Lisa Tucker
Lisa Lim
Dalas Mueller
Lindsey Perkins
Leslie Bartlett
Tony Bunch
Valerie Rieben
Dee Long
Connie Lindquist
Nicole Niemiec
Angela Proctor
Gretchen Stockbauer
Lisa Matthews
Debbie Marks
Christine Brouillette
Tawny Hernandez
Ruby McGill
Jennifer Peterson
Lydia Rosencrants (and Anna)
John and Tami Caiazza
Gary Printz
Jennifer Djambov
Christina Scott
Cathy Hedrich
Addie Talley
Jonna Nurkkala
Brenda Jepperson
Megan Stephens
Elaina Lawrence
Deb Wielhouwer
Serena Bruzgo
Stephanie Roodhuyzen
Suzanne Taylor
Michael and Theresa Revilak
Angela Covington
Jennifer Hall
Dena Thorp
Chris Black
Rachel Davis
Paula Chancellor
Amanda Sutton
Nancy Larrick
Marsha Walker
Rhonda Collins
Jennifer Pinard
Cindy Abbott
Dee Grady
Ashley Quinn
Annette Bailey
Mary Howard
Tana Whicker
Melissa Tannehill
Shurree Winters
Joy Woodin
Lynda Olave
Marla Holmes
Heather Sprague
Renee Tam
The Norris Family
Elizabeth Schroder
Donnie Statom
Erica Judd (Alex too :)
The Van Vleet Family
Dave and Peggy Orneleas
Sandee and Randy Miles
Lori Buchanan
The Cooper Family
Julie Fraley
Lisa Polakowski
Tacie Turner
Laura Harr

Friday, July 19, 2013

Leaving in 2 weeks!!!

I was told by my agency yesterday (Wednesday) that we would not be getting travel dates this week because our Lawyer in Country was still collecting all of our paperwork.
Well I decided to just accept that we were going to be waiting through another weekend.

I woke up this morning (Thursday... so technically yesterday) without an email from my agency. About a half hour later, I checked again because I just could not help myself. I think I literally gasped when I saw an email from my agency titled Mitchell Travel dates..... EEEKKKKK!!
We leave in just 2 weeks to bring our boys home.
We fly out on August 2nd and return home on the 10th :)

Matthias will walk out of his group home FOREVER on August 4th 
and
Adam will walk (well be carried) out of his orphanage FOREVER on August 5th!

I thought it would never happen and here were are just 2 weeks away!!!!

For all those anxiously waiting for your children, here is our timeline.
July 28, 2012 Saw this blog post
http://theblessingofverity.com/2012/07/your-light-has-come-little-child/
and fell in love with Adam!!
July 30, 2012 Got Adam and Hamilton's files from CHI
see Hamilton here..... http://theblessingofverity.com/2012/07/taking-the-low-place-part-2/
August 3, 2012 Kevin agreed to adopt Adam so the fundraising began!!
August 19, 2012 Found out that Adam would be having shunt surgery
August 21, 2012 Contacted Carla with AAC to commit to Adam
August 27, 2012 Our AAC application was approved!
August 27, 2012 officially started the homestudy process
August 29, 2012 sent in commitment docs to Carla
September 3, 2012 Adam was admitted to the hospital
September 4, 2012 Adam has a VP shunt installed
September 13, 2012 We were officially matched to Adam
September 13, 2012 Sent in $1500.00 to AAC
October 2, 2012 Homestudy visit
October 10, 2012 Sent in $2000.00 to AAC
October 15, 2012 Home study sent to Carla at AAC for review
October 24, 2012 Received our home study in the mail
October 24, 2012 Applied for a FSP from Reeces Rainbow
October 30, 2012 Mailed in I-800a
November 1, 2012 We got a RR FSP
November 18, 2012 Got biometrics appt of December 5, 2012
November 19, 2012 went in 16 days early to get our fingerprints done
December 3, 2012 Paid $500 to AAC for hague over sight
December 14, 2012 Received USCIS approval
December 28, 2012 Paid $5500 to AAC
January 3, 2013 dossier mailed
January 9, 2013 Posted "Alvin" on my wall saying I would adopt him if I could bring home 2
January 13, 2013 Showed "Alvin" from RR to Kevin and we decided he was meant to be our son!
January 16, 2013 Signed commitment docs for Mathias
January 16, 2013 got home study addendum
January 16, 2013 got docs notarized and apostilled
January 16, 2013 Send in USCIS supp 3 to add a 2nd child
January 25, 2013 We were officially matched with "Alvin" (Mathias)
January 27, 2013 Mathias was added to our FSP
February 1, 2013 Got USCIS approval for 2
February 1, 2013 sent remaining Dossier docs to B
February 14, 2013 Our dossier was submitted to the MOJ
February 27, 2013 We received our Verbal referral
February 28, 2013 FNA received our written referral
March 2, 2013 Received a travel date We will leave either the 21st or 22nd of March
March 21, 2013 Left for the boys' Country
March 22, 2013 arrived in Country
March 25, 2013 Met Adam
March 29, 2013 Final visit with Adam and First visit with Matthias
April 2, 2013 Final visit with Matthias
April 4, 2013 Flew home
April 8, 2013 Mailed I800
April 20, 2013 Final docs from our agency arrived after being lost by USPS for 10+ days
April 20, 2013 Received notice of receipt for our I800
April 22, 2013 Mailed final docs to Boys' Country.... nothing left to do but fundraise and wait
April 22, 2013 Received I800 receipt for the 2nd child
April 25, 2013 Got a request for evidence from USCIS
April 25, 2013 Sent the missing paperwork to USCIS
April 29, 2013 All of our final docs arrived in our boys' Country
May 4, 2013 I800 approval came in the mail
May 9, 2013 Article 5 interview scheduled for May 14th
May 14, 2013 Article 5 interview
May 15, 2013 Article 5 letter received
May 15, 2013 Agency needed another doc, so I mailed it to Country
May 24, 2013 Submitted for signature
July 4, 2013 Received signature and submitted to court
July 8, 2013 Had court and passed. We officially have 5 kids :)
July 18, 2013 We got travel dates. We leave on August 2nd. Gotcha day for Matthias is August 4th and Gotcha day for Adam is August 5th :)

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Meet Matthias and hear Adam laugh

I may be a proud mom or something, but I am beyond excited that I can share my sons with you.

Meet my son Matthias.



Isn't he handsome??
I just love this little man!!

Now listen to Adam's sweet laugh


Watch Matthias take some of his very first steps


We only need $647 to be fully funded :)

The winner of the ipad from our bid giveaway is Gordon Belflower

Monday, July 8, 2013

Proud Mom of 5!!!!!

KEVIN AND I ARE OFFICIALLY PROUD PARENTS OF 5!!!!!!
We passed court this morning.
We did not even know court had been scheduled, but we passed!!!!! 

I am kinda thankful that I did not know we had court today or I would not have slept at all.
I woke up and checked my emails a few times during the night. Like I always do. I checked at 4 then 5. Then I did not check again until just after 7am. Figures the email came at 5:59am..... I should have checked at 6 LOL.

We are still short on funding by $1487. This is sooooo doable friends.
We should have $700 coming in soon from matching grants. 
Our FSP needs to read $18615 for us to be fully funded (assuming airfare is what I estimated).

Can I get 75 people to donate $20??

Then we will be fully funded!!!!!!! 

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I would like to introduce you to our son Adam
This was the first day we met.
 This was 5 days later when I had to say goodbye :(

I will post pictures of Matthias when our FSP hits $16,500 :)

Saturday, July 6, 2013

Matching grant and getting close!!!

We have so much amazing support.
Right now we have a $400 matching grant. It will be met when our FSP (http://reecesrainbow.org/48978/sponsormitchell) reaches $16425 ($359 to go)

Basically what that means is that if we can get 186 people to donate just $10, we will be fully funded :) How awesome huh??!!

A few days ago we needed over $3000 and now we re down to needing just 2249 (only 1490 once we meet the match).... So so so exciting!!!!

A friend who traveled the same week as me has court this Monday!!!!
Please pray everything goes smoothly and she gets fast travel dates.

We should have court either next week or the week after.
Please pray we get a quick court date also :)

Friday, July 5, 2013

Good news, firsts and FUNdraising

Well let's start with some GOOD news!!!
The freedom bells rang a little louder for our family this morning when we found out that we had progess in our adoption FINALLY!!!
We got our signature and were submitted to court.
We should get assigned a pretty fast court date since there had not been signatures in nearly 6 weeks. 
I am secretly hoping court is next week :)
We should be booking our travel to bring our boys home in a couple weeks YAY!!!!!!!
We should have them home in mid to late August FINALLY!!!!

Just because they are so so cute


I was so excited when I got the news then a little bit of panic set in.... We still need just over $3000 to be fully funded. We need our FSP (http://reecesrainbow.org/48978/sponsormitchell) to read $17000 by the time we have court in order to have enough in their to pay for our airfare. Then it needs to read $18615 for us to be fully funded :) I know we can do it, but I just hope my babies do not have to wait a second longer than needed.

We have been doing a lot of local fundraisers. Some have been VERY successful 
while others have Bombed :(
Recently we have been selling sodas and glow bracelets during fireworks. 
The 4th of July was actually our 3rd time doing this and we also were able to sell drinks during the parade this morning also. We started our morning at 7:30 am (which is when I saw the email saying we had a signature ;) about 8:30 or 9 am we started walking to all the area people were sitting. We told them we were adopting and sold drinks which many people were excited about.... It was HOT. We walked around for about 2 hours. We got back to my Brother in law's house (it is along the parade route) to wait for the parade to end and restock. Right as the last of the parade went by we grabbed our wagon and coolers and started out again. I found a spot by the opening to the park (when tons of booths were set up) and sold drinks as people got there. We made decent money towards our adoption which is great!!
While we were talking to people we met a guy who had served a mission in our boys' Country. It turns out he goes to church with my bro in law. He says he has 4 other friends that also speak my boys' native language. He has offered to translate and speak to the boys to offer familiarity for them when they get home. This may seem simple, but it is a huge blessing to us to have met this amazing person.
After fundraising for hours, we let the kids do a couple of activities before we headed home to rest.
This is me. I think we walked about 5 miles :( I was beyond tired, but I will do anything for my kids!
FYI I have a cute sunburn everywhere except where that lanyard is and where my glasses were 

Oh and while the girls got their nails painted for free, my dad joined them :P
Wow I am so so proud. 

We only got to be home for about an hour before we had to re stock, run to the store for things we were out of and get back to it. We did get to enjoy my nephew's birthday for a couple hours, but it was also outside and this mama was hot and not meaning sexy here people.
The birthday boy :) I swear he thinks the whole world is celebrating his birthday :)
At about 8:30pm we headed back out selling glow sticks and drinks. Right as we were getting ready to leave this lady comes by walking her dog and sees that we are raising money for our adoption. She begins to tell me her story. She got pregnant and 16 and decided to give her daughter up for adoption. Later in life when she wanted children, she chose to adopt. She has 2 adopted children. I felt blessed to have met her and heard her story. Then right after she walked away we had just started selling and a lady stopped and bought a couple drinks. She told us she had adopted her daughter and would pray for us. Her friend that was with her walked over and gave us $20 as a donation. What a huge blessing. Then the selling began.

 We walked and walked and walked and walked.
We learned a lot of lessons today. One of them is never ever ever judge people by their looks. Some people who barely spoke English would walk up and do their best to buy stuff AND tell us they would pray. Or they would wish us luck. That means so much. Bikers, gay people, straight people, kids, adults, those with special needs, short, tall, cowboys...... A LOT of people  from many backgrounds came together today for a cause..... my boys and I love each of them.

I had one man come up to me. A soldier. He asked me if I had traveled to the Country my kids were from. I told him that I had. It turns out he served over there. Did some training etc. We talked for a few minutes on how we both loved the Country and in that moment I felt a little closer to my boys. I had not ever met anyone in person that had been there and today 2 people share in my love for a beautiful Country that will always be special to me. Afterall, it is where my boys come from.

We walked easily another 5+ miles, but some how God did not let me get tired or feel the pain until we were done. We arrived back to my bro in law's house 5 minutes before the fireworks started. Wow then the pain started setting in. My sun burn was starting to blister. I realized I had blisters on my feet. I was sore from head to toe (literally). It didn't matter. The day was perfect and I would do it all again if I had to. I am thankful I don't have to, but I would do anything for my kids. ALL 5 of them.

Now onto the first. My oldest daughter is on the autism spectrum and has always hated fireworks. For the first time ever tonight she watched a portion of the fireworks without having her ears plugged and covering her head. She actually enjoyed them. You may not get how huge this is, but it was huge for her. She still did some rocking and other things, but I am just fine with baby steps.
Of course the finale was like the best ever and had like 20 fireworks going at a time and she melted into tears, but she lasted most of the display :)

Here are a few pics of the kids. I forgot my camera and my phone died :(

A huge thank you to everyone who has helped us get this far by sharing, donating and praying :)